One
thing about life that everyone must agree is that regardless of one’s
age, we are all a “work in progress” which will never be totally
finished. Each of us is ever-changing as we encounter new experiences
and challenges on a daily basis. Therefore, when it comes to building a
strong and productive life, we can all take heart in the fact that we
can begin the construction at any stage of our life. As well, we can
also take heart in the fact that no matter how hard we try, because our
task will never be complete, we are able to make amendments to our
“life plan” whenever we discover a more satisfying path.
I
recently came across an article entitled, “Mastering Your Habits”,
written by a man called Steve Goodier. In it he pointed out that
habit starts out as a thread. As new threads are added, it becomes a
rope we cannot break. This means that we have to be careful about which
habits we adopt, because our habits eventually make us who we are. By
making strong and productive habits, we build strong and productive
lives.
Goodier
pointed out a list of habits that peak performance people share. If you
intend to have a successful life, it makes sense to examine what other
successful people have done in order to master theirs. You do not have
to be a CEO or a Chairman of the Board to benefit from studying
successful people. Their habits can be adopted by everybody who wishes
to lead a satisfying, productive lifestyle. Goodier felt that anybody
who works to develop the following traits will experience almost
instantaneous results. I invite you to study the habits and incorporate
them into your daily activities. This is one article that you should
keep handy and read often.
1.
People who master their lives are people who know what they want and are
willing to devote energy toward achieving it. They develop the habit of
writing their most important goals and reminding themselves of these
goals constantly.
2.
People who master their lives create healthy relationships. They get
along well with the people with whom they live and work. They give
special attention to their families.
3.
People who master their lives practice integrity. They habitually do
what is right, even when nobody will know. They live by self-imposed
principles.
4.
People who master their lives are honest about their strengths as well
as their weaknesses. They build on their strengths and work daily toward
self improvement.
5.
People who master their lives take care of their bodies. They exercise
regularly and eat sensibly. They receive proper medical treatment. They
tend not to smoke, they take drugs only as necessary and they limit
their alcohol intake.
6.
People who master their lives control their time. They take at least an
hour every day for personal time. They spend daily time with close
friends or family, and guard against spending too much time in areas
that are unimportant.
7.
People who master their lives understand their emotions. They don’t
leave emotional pain untreated. They know that healthy attitudes are as
essential as healthy behaviours. They develop a trusting and optimistic
outlook on life.
None
of the above habits are difficult to apply to our daily living. If we
follow them, they will be woven into a rope so strong that it cannot be
broken. When you master these habits, you will master your life. And
when you master your life you master your future.
Steve
Goodier isn’t saying anything we haven’t all heard before. But
perhaps, this time, you and I are more ready than ever to listen to the
advice and make a special effort to develop these habits. Read them over
again carefully and slowly. Read them every couple of days, especially
when you feel the stress of overbearing challenges. Know what you want
in life; create healthy relationships; do what is right; build on your
strengths; take care of your health; manage your time wisely; and always
have a positive outlook on life! This seems to be the key to unlocking
your future. Work on it today!
Have
a good week!