This
week I have a story which will be appropriate for any of my readers who
have ever asked the question, “Why me? What did I do to deserve
this?”
Sound
familiar?
Unless
you have been living under a rock somewhere in the deep forest, you will
have found yourself uttering those very words many times in the past. We
are all subject to bad luck or bad fortune from time to time. Often we
shake our head in despair, feeling down and dejected, wondering if we
will ever recover. Eventually, things work out and we get back on our
feet, usually in a much better situation than we were in prior to our
misfortune.
Next
time you think that you have problems, remember that sometimes those
problems can actually save our life.
The
story is about a king in Africa who had a close friend with whom he grew
up. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever
occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, “This is
good!”
One
day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend
would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently
done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the
gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off.
Examining
the situation, the friend remarked as usual, “This is good!”
To
which the king replied, “No, this is not good!” and proceeded to
send his friend to jail.
About
a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known
to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took them to their village.
The tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to
the stake. As they came near to set the fire to the wood, they noticed
that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate
anyone who was less than whole. So, untying the king, they sent him on
his way.
As
he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb
and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to
the jail to speak with his friend.
“You
were right,” he said, “it was good that my thumb was blown off.”
And
he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened.
“And
so I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for
me to do this,” explained the king.
“No,”
his friend replied. “This is good!”
“What
do you mean? How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a
year? asked the bewildered king.
“If
I had not been in jail, I would have been with you,” replied the
friend.
So
you see, even in our darkest hour, there is always hope that things will
get better and that our challenges will actually result in a positive
change in our life. Next time you are feeling as if your life will never
recover from a setback, think about the king’s friend and try to say,
“This is good!”
Have
a good week!