Isn’t it funny how the little
things you do for someone are often the most appreciated? You can buy
your spouse a very expensive gift for Christmas or a birthday, but if
you give some small token of love completely out of the blue for no
reason at all, your loved one acts as if it is the nicest thing you have
ever done. Christmas is a time for showing people in our life just how
much we care for them...not with the size of a gift, but just with any
type of gift...even the gift of our presence for a nice visit during the
holidays.
I heard a story the other day
about a couple, named Kathy and Don, who moved into a new house during
the summer. Kathy had the pleasure during the next several months to
meet a few of her neighbours who seemed to be extremely nice people. For
Christmas, she thought she would do something nice for each of the
neighbours that she knew. She sat down and counted. There were nine
neighbours whom she knew by name or spoke with often when out in her
yard. She also knew which houses they lived in.
Kathy then decided to add one
more person to her list for a total of ten. The tenth person was a lady
who lived down the street. She met the lady every morning walking to
work as she drove down the street. She always managed a contagious smile
and a hearty wave. She had no idea what the mystery lady’s name was
and was not even sure which house she lived in.
Kathy’s gift idea was to make
small fruit baskets and leave them on each of her neighbour’s front
porches or door steps the night of Christmas Eve for them to find,
either that night or the next morning. She signed the cards: “Happy
Holidays from 5104 Northumberland Road.”
Kathy saved the friendly lady
for last, since she was still not exactly sure where she lived. Finally,
Kathy decided upon a house down about where she met her each morning and
felt relatively sure that it was hers.
Her neighbours really
appreciated the baskets and would thank Kathy as they saw her in the
yard or they would call, and a couple even came by to thank her in
person.
One morning on her way to work,
Kathy noticed a small note inside her mailbox. It was addressed simply,
Resident, 5104 Northumberland Road. She opened the envelope and took out
a Thank You card. She opened the card and read the message, which really
caught her by surprise.
The card said, “Thank you for
the lovely fruit basket you left on the porch of Richard Kelly. It was
very thoughtful. Richard Kelly passed away on January 19, but he never
stopped talking about how nice it was that someone remembered him in his
time of illness. He really appreciated it.”
Kathy was sincerely stunned. She
had no idea who Richard Kelly was or that he had been gravely ill. She
had left that nice lady’s basket on Mr. Kelly’s porch by accident.
Kathy firmly believed that Richard Kelly was meant to have that basket
and the Lord knew that he only had less than a month to live. She was
sorry that the nice lady did not get to receive a fruit basket from her
that Christmas, but was sure that she would understand if she ever found
out what had happened.
Kathy felt blessed to have
helped Richard Kelly’s last days be more cheerful. It further
reinforced her belief that there are never any mistakes in life...just
detours, shortcuts, and small excursions along the way.
This Christmas, make a list of
the acquaintances you know and see if there isn’t something you can do
to make their holidays just a little bit brighter. See if there are any
people on the list who may be having some difficulties in their life and
who could use some cheering up. Remember, it is not so much the gift
that counts as it is the thought that someone cares about you. And next
time you feel your life is not heading in the right direction, just
remember that there are never any mistakes in life...just detours.
Have a good week!