A couple of weekends ago I had the
opportunity to play in a golf tournament with my son and two of his
friends. Marty Kirwan, Stacy Levac and Todd Newell have been inseparable
friends for many years and needed a fourth player for their team which
was entered in the Annual ‘AAA’ Midget Golf Tournament. Last year
they came in 2nd place by a single stroke and wanted to take
a serious run at winning it this year. We had a practice round prior to
the tournament and even went to the driving range to warm up before our
11 a.m. tee time on the day of the big event. When we took our place on
the tee to begin our quest for the championship, little did I realize
that I was taking part in one of those significant life experiences that
we all look back upon with fondness over the ever increasing years of
our life.
The golf part of the day was remarkable in itself. The three young
men I had the privilege of playing with, each in their early 20's,
executed unbelievable skills throughout the round. I was the one who was
expected to be the stabilizing force on the team. After all, at almost
three times their age, and with a reputation of being a fairly good
golfer, my experience was to have helped them along. Needless to say,
that try as I might, my drives were short, my chips were off the mark,
and my putting was nowhere near perfect. As a matter of fact, out of the
58 best ball strokes we took, only two of them selected were shots that
I had made, including the drive on the very last hole. Marty, Todd and
Stacy each came through when needed and seemed to know when it was their
turn to hold up the team. They were in good humour throughout the
afternoon and thoroughly enjoyed what they were doing with an air of
confidence that made you feel like they were destined accomplishing
their goal. They even made an old man like me feel like I was an
integral part of the team and I was delighted to be along for the ride.
We actually won the tournament by three strokes - a relatively large
margin of victory for a scramble event. I doubt if I will ever witness,
let alone be a part of, another performance as good as the one I saw
that afternoon. Long drives in excess of 300 yards; pin-point accurate
chipping, and; excellent putting were the order of the day. I don’t
think I had a bad day of golf, but I just couldn’t come close to the
standard set by my three partners.
As we mingled among the other 141 golfers in the clubhouse at the end
of the competition, I felt a tremendous sense of pride at having been
part of the winning team. I knew so many of the participants, having
lived in Valley East for 27 years, and it was a great feeling receiving
comments about playing with my son and his friends.
Nevertheless, even amid the excitement and glory of winning the
tournament, there was also a sense of sadness inside my heart that is
hard for me to explain. For I know that moments such as I was
experiencing that day will be few and far between in the future unless
we do something drastic to prevent our greatest resource - our children
- from being forced to relocate to the south to find meaningful
employment and careers. As I looked at Marty, Stacy and Todd that
evening, I realized that they will miss so much of the quality of life
that exists in Valley East unless we create a reason for them to stay.
When they graduate two years from now, will there be a career waiting
for them in the Sudbury area? Will the downsizing continue to erode the
options available to the next generation? Will the lure of the south
drag them away from us?
To all of the readers who are from my generation, I lay down the
challenge. Let us do something for our children before it is too late.
Let us help create an economically viable community in which the Marty’s,
Stacy’s and Todd’s of tomorrow can grow up and enjoy a quality of
life that is unique to the north. The Sudbury District can offer our
children just as good a future as Toronto, but we must create the proper
environment in which this can happen. We must take chances and invest
our time and money into new initiatives, and we must do so before it is
too late. Let’s not talk about downsizing anymore. Let’s talk about
expanding and creating wealth upon which dreams can be built.
I am not ready to give up on the future just yet. We have already
lost too many Marty’s, Stacy’s and Todd’s. It is time for action.
Please join with me in making it happen.
Have a good week! |