I’ve met a lot of people over the
course of my lifetime. Some I remember with fondness and some I would
rather forget. A little over two years ago, when I began working as the
Marketing Manager for the Hanmer Valley Shopping Centre, I met a quiet,
unassuming gentleman who has taught me a lot more about life than he can
John Lancia was the
custodian of the shopping center. He retired at the end of March after a
career that spanned 27 years. What is most remarkable about this man is
that he is 77 years old. His working life has included 15 years with the
railway, 20 years in the mines, and 27 years working for Val Mazzuca at
During the retirement
party which was held for him on April 2 I thought back to a story I once
read. Let me share it with you before I go any further about John.
This story is
about an elderly carpenter who was ready to retire. He told his
employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and
live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He
would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.
The contractor was
sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more
house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy
to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy
workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end
When the carpenter
finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the
contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your
house," he said, "my gift to you."
What a shock! What a
shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have
done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built
none too well.
As I watched John going
around the room, being congratulated by some of his close friends and
family, and as I listened to the speeches that reflected upon this man’s
life, I realized how easy it is for us to fall into the same trap as the
carpenter in the story. So
often we build our lives in a distracted way, willing to put up less than
the best. So often at work we are content with giving a mediocre
performance and not giving the job our best effort.
And then we are shocked when we look at the situation we have
created and realize we are now living in the “house we have built”.
We should all think of
ourselves as the carpenter. Each day we are building our house. Everything
we do is like hammering another nail, placing a board or erecting a wall.
We should take care and build it wisely. It is the only life we will ever
build. Even if you live for only one more day, that day deserves to be
lived graciously and with dignity.
I looked over at John.
He was overwhelmed with the attention he was receiving from his employer,
his friends, from former mayors and other people who held esteemed
positions in the community. John Lancia – a custodian – receiving all
of this attention from so many important people.
John spent the evening thanking everyone for making the evening so
special. He and his wife, Chummy came to see me the following week to ask
me if I could put something in The Vision to express their appreciation to
everyone who came to the party.
When he left my office
I thought back to the party. Over 100 people gathered together. They were
not there to say good bye and give their best wishes to a custodian. They
were there to pay tribute to a “master carpenter”. A person who
treated everyone he met with respect. A person who couldn’t do enough to
help other human beings – friend or stranger. A person who never thought
about what he could get out of life, but what he could give to life –
what he could give to others. A person who was totally committed and
focused on his family.
I will extend your
expression of appreciation to everyone who came to your party, John. But
on behalf of everyone who has ever met that, friendly and helpful
custodian at the Hanmer Valley Shopping Centre, I also want to thank you,
John, for showing us how to build our own house. You gave us a gift that
will last forever. Everyone of us who came to your party were coming to
admire the house you built – to extend our thanks to you, for allowing
us to enter your “house” and seeing what can be done when you put your
heart and soul into every day of your life.
Our life today is the
result of our attitudes and choices in the past. Our life tomorrow will be
the result of our attitudes and the choices we make today. All
we can hope for is to be able to one day live in a house as wonderful as